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Redefining Success: From Hustle to Heartfelt Freedom

What does success truly mean?

For years, we’ve been fed a narrative that success is measured by the size of your house, the car you drive, the brand of your purse, or how many zeroes are in your bank account. It’s the constant chase—the next big promotion, the latest iPhone, a flashier lifestyle. But somewhere along the way, many of us—myself included—realized that while those things can be exciting for a moment, they rarely bring true fulfillment.

I used to believe that success had to look a certain way. I worked hard, I pushed myself, I wore the hustle badge with pride. But deep down, I was exhausted. And the truth? I didn’t feel successful at all. I felt overwhelmed, burnt out, and disconnected from what really mattered.

It took years of growth, healing, and transformation to understand that success isn't about chasing more—it’s about aligning with what brings you peace.

To me, success now looks like freedom—freedom to design my days with intention and joy. It’s about waking up in the morning without dread, feeling excited to start the day, knowing that I’ve created a life that reflects who I truly am.

It’s peace—in my body, in my home, in my relationships.

It’s joy—in the little things, like walking my dogs, sipping tea in the sunshine, dancing barefoot in the sand, or hearing from a client that their life has changed because of something we worked on together.

It’s presence—not racing through life, but actually living it.

This picture—me spending two whole months in Mexico—is one of the clearest success markers I’ve ever had. Not because it was glamorous or something to post about… but because it represented freedom. I gave myself permission to take a break, soak in the sun, heal, reflect, and just be. That, to me, is success on every level.

It wasn’t always this way. For many years, I was a single mom working multiple jobs, juggling responsibilities, pouring from an empty cup, and wondering if life would ever feel lighter. I know what it’s like to feel stuck, to compare yourself to others, and to question if your dreams are even possible.

But here’s what I’ve learned:

Success doesn’t live in someone else’s version of life. It lives in the choices you make every day to live true to yourself.

If your version of success is having time to cook dinner with your family every night, that matters.

If it’s traveling the world or working from a beachside café, that’s beautiful too.

If it’s simply having peace of mind, waking up without anxiety, and going to bed feeling proud—that’s everything.

You don’t need anyone’s permission to redefine what success means for you.

So I invite you today to pause and ask yourself:

What does your version of success look like?

What would it feel like to live in alignment with your truth—not society’s expectations?

You don’t have to wait for some perfect moment or milestone. You can start now. One decision at a time, one boundary at a time, one bold YES to your heart at a time.

This life is yours to shape. And let me tell you—freedom, peace, joy… they are worth chasing. Because once you taste them, that becomes the new standard.

Here’s to living life on your terms.

Here’s to redefining success from the inside out.

With love and freedom,

Jennifer

Jennifer "Sunshine" Singer

Founder of FabGlow

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